Things I learned in the past week was understanding the situation. It’s good to hear someone give us some concern by saying “I’m worried about you”. I defenitely feel like someone think about me but what will they really do with that? It’s not helpful for me and I used to be that person all the time and I realize nothing I can do but express my feeling.
I was super worried person and It challange me to push that feeling away and take things easy because even it’s real or not, time will never stop and I don’t want to waste it thinking about stuff that make me exhausted and worried too much.
I’m in the long distance relationship with my boyfriend and for some reason We can’t really communicate for few days cz no connection at his work and it made me nuts. So by message him everyday won’t change the situation he having there and til I was wondering if there’s a smart dove will send a letter to him because I’m worried. When the connection back and I realised the way I’m worried will just made him uncomfortable and give him more things to think about when he needs to take care of his work.
I have one real life example about my friend that trying to safe my life when I was in danger. I hosted a weird stranger at my place (too long to explained about him, haha) and before bed I was talking to my friend over the phone and There’s suspicious move from my guest and trying to open my bedroom door. My friend on the phone was worried and told me to lock the door cz he’s worried about me but he’s making a move by calling a friend that he knows around my area 😂 and keep me updated that his friend will come and safe my night. Whatta night for me and thanks I have such a good friend like him 🙂
So, It’s OK to be worried but don’t let it ruined your brain like I did. If there’s nothing you can do and all you have to do is calm down and wait at the end. All I care is myself, if I can be positive and I can make the right decision and everything not gonna be OK but you can handle it just fine.
I just think to tell about this story cz I learned from it and I’m glad it happened to me 🙂 Good luck for you today 🙂